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In the recording business, records were measured by RPMs. This stood for Revolutions Per Minute. This abbreviation is also a helpful mnemonic device to remember four important tools in one’s recovery tool kit.  

RPMS: Readings, Prayers, Meetings and Sponsorship

Readings

Engaging with recovery literature, daily reflections, or inspirational texts provides insight and encouragement. Readings can introduce new perspectives, offer guidance on common challenges, and remind you of the progress you’ve made. Whether it’s a book, pamphlet, or online resource, these words become touchstones that anchor you in your commitment to sobriety.  

A common phrase used in computer coding is “garbage in – garbage out.”  To decode the messages from my active addiction, I need to replace those messages with the coding of recovery. Doing daily readings from the Big Book, or other recovery related literature is a great way to replace old coding with the new coding of recovery. 

Prayer

The concept of a Higher Power is central to many recovery programs, providing a spiritual anchor for those seeking healing. Whether understood as a divine presence, the collective wisdom of a community, or simply the idea of something greater than oneself, a Higher Power offers hope, guidance, and reassurance. By surrendering control and trusting in this guiding force, individuals create space for humility, acceptance, and transformation. The presence of a Higher Power can help illuminate the path forward, especially in moments of uncertainty or struggle.

Prayer or meditation creates a space for personal reflection and connection with your Higher Power. This practice encourages mindfulness, gratitude, and the cultivation of inner peace. Through prayer, individuals can seek guidance, process emotions, and find comfort during moments of distress. It’s an opportunity to pause, center yourself, and renew your resolve.

Meetings

Recovery meetings provide a sense of community and shared experience. In these gatherings, individuals witness others’ journeys, exchange stories, and remind one another that they are not alone. Meetings foster camaraderie, accountability, and the opportunity to learn from others. They are a haven for expressing fears, hopes, and struggles, reinforcing the idea that recovery is a collective effort. Afterall, the First Step tells us it is a “We” program. It doesn’t say, “I admitted I was powerless…” It says, “We admitted we…” 

Sponsorship

The sponsor is a trusted companion and mentor on the recovery journey. Sponsors offer accountability and support, sharing their own experiences and insights to help guide others through the complexities of sobriety. They are a source of encouragement and honest feedback, helping to navigate setbacks and celebrate milestones. By forming a meaningful relationship with a sponsor, individuals gain access to wisdom, empathy, and practical advice that can make all the difference during difficult times.  

Another important aspect of sponsorship is being a sponsor. While your primary sponsor is invaluable, sponsorship also refers to the act of supporting others in their recovery. By sponsoring someone else, you deepen your engagement in the program and reinforce your own commitment to sobriety. Sponsorship is a reciprocal process: as you guide others, you too grow, learn, and strengthen your foundation. As the co-founder of A.A. discovered ninety years ago, we keep our sobriety by sharing it with others. 

Integrating RPMS for Lasting Recovery

The application of these tools (Readings, Prayer, Meetings and Sponsorship) creates a robust framework for long-term recovery. Consistent use of these resources empowers individuals to weather challenging moments, build resilience, and embrace positive change. Recovery is not a solitary endeavor; it thrives on connection, reflection, and structured support. Alcoholism flourishes in isolation and the application of these tools brings the individual out of the darkness and into the “sunlight of the spirit.” 

By honoring your Higher Power, and incorporating readings, prayer, meetings, and sponsorship into your daily life, you forge a path toward healing. These tools offer not only practical guidance but also the hope and encouragement needed to sustain sobriety and enjoy the rewards of personal growth.

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Maj Donovan is a person in long-term recovery with over four decades of lived recovery experience. He submits a monthly blog to The Retreat and he teaches a monthly workshop to the guests of The Retreat on The Steps and Sponsorship.

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